good friend is 100% trustable and reliable on anytime

22 May 2008
I THINK I MUST OWN A CAR
Why?
The story is like this...
Actually, our christian congregation plan to go Mersing (a place at east coast of West Malaysia, i guess it should be under Johor) on 6, 7 and 8 MAY 2008 for holiday and also special magazine day (one of our christian organization activity). I plan to join because this special activity is joint with some christian member from Singapore. So i am looking forward to join because i guess it must be a very memorable moment to join them all and having a good time playing the games.
However, i face a problem regarding transport. I am a student who studying in Universiti Teknologi Malaysia, Skudai Johor. My hometown is Sibu, Sarawak, which it is far separated by South China Sea. So, all my family members, my mum and dad all are there. So, i got nothing here, just my luggage that i brought along during the time i came here for study last year and some staff that i bought here, and of course my dear laptop. So, everything need to start from nothing. Recently i just bought a new motorbike, it is 3rd hand, ( i don't care how mant hand it got). But, i don't have a car.
Having a car is must more important at this very moment. Because, i need to go Mersing by my own if i want to join the activity there. This is because the date just exactly the same day i having my laboratory module for morning and afternoon. And they are planing to leave on the early morning, which means i can't join them for morning, i can only join them after my class finish and i need to drive by myself to go there, which the direction i know but the road to go, i only depend on the sign board beside the road. However, this don't afraid me much cos i been driving 7 hours from my hometown to Kuching which is the capital of Sarawak state (the distance around 400km).
Then why i emphaysize on the issue that i must own a car? It is because just now, i ask my good buddy who is also my christian member regarding i'm going to borrow his car for the journey because during that time, he is outstation. However, the response quite dissapointed me. He refused, as he telling me that his mother not allow. I can fully understand his stand as i always borrow his car and he never said no. Of course for this time, i trust him too. I know he don't mind to borrow me his car cos i had used his car during last long holiday and i had proved to him that i will take good care of his car and of course i did it. So, i know he trust me too. However, as he claimed, his mother not allow him to do so. SO, i understood that is not his problem. In fact, he is innocent if i said he let me down by not lending his VIVA to me. Cos the problem is that his mother never meet me before and of course she is worry. So, who's fault? Not him, also not his mother. Maybe everyone is faultless. The only problem is that, i should own my new car. Even though you may wonder, good friend should share things together. But let me tell you the fact, even good friend some time, there can't be always 24 hour friend that will permit all your demands and request. Cos they are human too. There is never correct for statement :good friend is 100% trustable and reliable on anytime. If you keep on believe this statement, I'm sure one day, you will agree with what i am saying here.
So, no car, how m i going to go Mersing? So, this is my problem, nobody will help me for this unless i take the initial to "beg" for help from 'friends'. But luckily, i got a friend who willing to lend me his car. But the impact is, i always need to watch his face color, because never dare to make him angry, otherwise, you also know the outcome. So, eveything must be bullied by him, but i just let him, cos no choice, who ask me don't have car, and always need his help. So, i must own a car very soon so that i don't need to be conquered or occupied by him for every decision make and of course, dare to say NO for things that i really really dislike him ask me to do.