舍得:有舍才有得

常常听身边的人说,要懂得去舍得,放弃这个,才能展望接下来.可是,我都会想,下个真的会更好吗?
生活中,常常都要做出抉择.有时有两个,赌注是一对一.如过多过两个,那就更头痛.生活,如果,少了个选择,也许我的烦恼就不需要这么多.

突然觉得好自卑…

大学生,考的不止是那学术文凭. 事实上,四年的大学生涯,也在考着我们人际关系. 以前,我可是一位独行者,就算是再大的困难,我都能熬得过去.问题越大 我就越是撑强. 所以说,我的名字可是一个品牌,在course mates当中,我是很好的组员. 凡是同我一组的,分数都不回差到那里去. 因为, 我有能力,用我独门绝招来拯救我的组.

可是,这学期,不知怎么了,对自己的能力开始怀疑. 对身边很多事都提不起劲. 人际关系就是其一.我觉得, 这就是失. 因为,我整天都在外赚外块.身边的朋友和伴,离我越来越远.我们没有什么共同的话题, 除了功课以外. 我很难想象,如果情况再这样下去,我是不是会出事.

最近忙着租车的生意,把自己的大部分时间和精力都投了给它.课业对我来说,根本就是兼职. 当然,这行业也给我认识很多人,顾客和新的工作伙伴. 原本想,有了这个新伙伴,总于可以多个伴,可是一起出街,shopping,聊天,玩,看戏和吃饭,可是,经过一段日子,我对他这新交的朋友,也只能说,失望透顶,根本就不领情.而, 我的死党和我,最近都在因一些小事闹得不愉快. 所以,我就尽量减少跟他来往.所以,连他这个伴都少了.看来以后,我还是要回到孤零零的生活,一个人吃饭,一个人走街,shopping,一个人去JUSCO, 一个人上网.

It has been a while since i last posted my news.

Fight for few ringgit
“Why you never think of the reason I ask you to treat me?”, “You are not a good business man!” “You thought I can’t afford to pay that RM5.50?” “Did you ever treat me to a big meal sincerely before?”…
Just now, on the way back to UTM, both of us are quarreling for that plenty of ringgit. And of course, the ending is not good. With that kind of awful tone, he said those hurtful words mentioned above. That is him; I understood since few years ago. I just wonder, does it worth to have a war for that few ringgit of money? Isn’t it we are earning more money, yet, we are getting more stingy and more “counting”. No wonder people said, never argue with a person that doing business, cos he will count till the last drop or cents.
Now, I am going to tell him here for the reason why I want to tell you those thing is, I want to control my spends. Ask yourself, “You can spend RM200 in week, but I earn RM200 in one month, what is the different?” Let me help you answer. RM200 for you is just a tiny amount. But to me? RM200 is my one month income. I scarify my time, my energy for that RM200. But you? Simply make a call to your mum, and you can get RM500. No wonder, most of the friends that surrounding you more interested on your “wealth” instead of true friendship.
Another one thing I hope you can hear from here is that, you always think for yourself and you are always right. When you insist of something, that is the truth, we must obey. When you want to change something in a sudden, you will change it, and you insist that is correct too. Without any compromise, you can change you standard and rules in a second. You always said you are perfect. Indeed, I prove to you that, you aren’t. However, you certainly give a good reason which I never ready for. Still remember when you make the mistake previously, the reason you give me is “Oh, I make mistake because I haven’t gone through the information, if I had gone through, definitely it won’t have any mistake occurs.” I tell you, you are BULLSHIT!!!
Finally, try to think for a second, how to treat people, remember, people will treat you back in the same manner. Again, this is a universal rules which will never change throughout the eternity, “All things, therefore, that you want men to do to you, you also must likewise do to them”… Even though you never apply it to me (actually I don’t think so, in fact I had been treated for that since long time ago), yet, you should ready to be get paid.